Am I such a loser? I would say their rigidity and how they don't challenge their opinions to maintain balance. Because it felt or looked like a betrayal , is that really correct? These people are usually very responsible and dependable, so they can easily take care of children properly and realize the needs of their kids. Interestingly, I aced psych and sociology. Its hard sometimes dealing with her impulses and social side. You are but you aren't really ready to face why. It confers a concern for tradition, as well as for the development of behavioral routines and habits.
Of course I cannot talk about my feeling emotionally, as I first have to rationalise them through thought, let alone other's feelings, no empathy, no direct emotional connection to be found, just Perception. Just make sure that the child has appropriate discipline whenever necessary and be the disciplinarian when required to ensure you child does not grow up to be a problem adult. They are the most illogical, and annoying things, that I can cage up, but not put to sleep. By 3 months all of the ability they have to keep up with me is usually gone or stays. If something is stupid or doesn't work well, I tell them so. You might find it rousing to engage in a witty argument just for the sake of it, but your companion may being to feel as though you are attacking them.
You'll know that you've blown a hole in her which will take years for her to mend. I can't stop myself from feeling things that make no sense, but I can also just push them to the back of my mind like an afterthought. Like All the Best Families, We Have Our Disagreements. They are fun-loving parents who want to give their children many experiences to help their young minds expand and grow. There are also considerations outside of her not meeting your needs, like for instance making sure we don't steamroll our counterpart and remember to take into account their feelings. The thing is, Si is usually wiser but there's something about the process of following Ne that can take you somewhere you didn't intend. Conscientious and hardworking, they are loyal and dedicated to people and organisations, and they take their responsibilities very seriously.
When it comes to matters of the heart, there are no hard and fast rules or formulas that when applied, guarantee the desired outcome. However, they are not adept at allowing themselves that pleasure. Honestly, I personally don't think it's a great pairing. Not telling me will result in me being confused, and probably giving up on the entire friendship. They both see the world in abstract and possibilities, which can lead to engaging conversation. Things we struggle with: -As an extrovert, I want to hangout with people all the time. In most cases, however, this type of individual will have fairly good knowledge and interest in the topic.
I break them because they're inconvenient. I personally have never met a single person in my life that I didn't have to alter the way I act, even to an extent. And do you regret doing it as in making that decision: if so you can always try to fix it. It has to do with the way you think. They may also develop a reputation for being inconsistent and talking more than doing.
Of course there are problems that we face when dealing with people of other Personality types but the fact that we can easily blend in and form a comfortable conversation really quickly is a Plus point. They usually love to show their partner how much they love and appreciate them, performing acts of service or buying small gifts they think their partner will enjoy. This puts the relationship in a very dark place, where both types due to the way their brains function are unequipped to exit. We help to develop each other in the best ways ie, being around him encourages me to be more organised, and I think him being around me encourages him to step out of the box a little more. Another potential problem is their desire to avoid unpleasant conversations, which may leave some issues unresolved. I currently take Adderall and it has really made my life much better. This is not to say that Thinkers should never pair with Feelers, but only that their relationships are best built on something more substantive than the primal attraction of opposites.
I am emotional, but I don't just act on emotions, I think before I act. We've known each other for so long that I think our friendship is based on common experience rather than personality. This lack of communication may make the relationship less satisfying for both. They have a unique view of the world, and bring a fresh perspective. Because they need their own companionship, they will turn to you, their friend. In fact, their actions will likely help to strengthen the relationship in the long run. However, there is a constant battle between emotions and logic with me.
Those in years in univewrsities for me were only pain, no gain whatsoever, because i didn't need that in that particular period of life. People with this personality type take no greater joy than in pleasing others, often even considering this a personal duty, and this applies to intimacy as well. I should have gone with my intuition - become an actor and musician. I used to think I was attracted to sheer intellect, but it's too unspecific - I am turned on by toying with ideas, astute observation, smart cynicism, exploration of taboos, artistic expression, novel connections. He doesn't love to try new things, but when he is willing to, it's delightful for me.