I slapped my boyfriend and he hit me back. My boyfriend slapped me across the face last week. Not sure whether to forgive him or not. : AskMen 2019-02-24

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He Hit Me. Should I Forgive Him?

i slapped my boyfriend and he hit me back

At first I was terrified, then when I was safe in my car, I got angry that he had hit me, now I feel embarrassed because I'm sure his little sister she's 21 heard everything and will tell everyone. He cried and begged for me back, told me how much he loved me and how much he was sorry, but i still did not take him back. Dear God, if it happens once, the chances are astronomical that it will happen again. Please don't take me wrong my friend. On the way home he wanted to drop his friend off, but I was late. My boyfriend and I are both in our first year of collage. Ethically, i think size- not sex- matters.

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If your partner hits you once and apologizes immediately, should you still be wary of him/her hitting you again? Can this wariness have a negative affect on your relationship in the future?

i slapped my boyfriend and he hit me back

It happens, but the more common story is that he says he won't and then does it again. Please notice that an abusive relationship can only go worse. I don't know what to do anymore. It was because someone didn't understand what they were really doing. Seriously, you've been married less than two years and this is the kind of environment you're bringing up a child in? And he will learn that it's a really stupid thing to do especially in an argument. He kept me there holding my arms down and on top of me continuously calling me names and insulting me. It might be the hardest thing you'll ever do, but not to do it will be the biggest mistake you will ever make.

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He Hit Me. Should I Forgive Him?

i slapped my boyfriend and he hit me back

That was downright scary what happened to you. This time it was because he wanted to break up and I did not want to. I'm like really late, but I think everyone here is missing the fact that on average, a male is stronger than a female, it's not a double standard if you think about it. Are you still with him? Girls that grow up watching their mom get hit in her relationships run a huge risk of being beaten. In a life or death situation it might be a bit more understandable, but unless that rare exception then I don't know of any good reason to justify guy should hit a girl.


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He Hit Me. Should I Forgive Him?

i slapped my boyfriend and he hit me back

Cross him and he'll shut you down. But really, violence is never okay except for instances of self-defense. . Mainly because you want to remain there. A reader, anonymous, writes 28 February 2009 : Less than a year after being together, my boyfriend and I had a petty argument and he hit me. He was afraid and started crying and i worse.

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What Do I Do Now? I Hit My Boyfriend.

i slapped my boyfriend and he hit me back

You shouldn't post on here expecting people to host a pity party for you. Be honest now, how many times has he apologized? But he said he wouldn't quit because it was just too big of an opportunity. Long story short, I got frostbite and it was somewhat dramatic when I was found practically frozen to death because I was afraid of him. Until at one point, she ended at the hospital. His reaction was a defense reaction by the amygdalla. He just kept on and kept on.


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He Hit Me. Should I Forgive Him?

i slapped my boyfriend and he hit me back

With help at the beginning your relationship can be repaired before it totally gets out of control. My boyfriend and I have been in a relatively happy and supportive relationship for almost 7 years, but it has never been perfect. You will miss him, and when your parents who hate him say bad things about him, you'll want to defend him. If you haven't already, you should definitely apologize for putting your hands on him because that was not right. I really hate it when people hit each other.

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Bf Slapped Me

i slapped my boyfriend and he hit me back

So, he hit me a few times - grabbed my wrist and tried to hurt my cat. It doesn't matter if he was drunk or not. No one needs to run away, she just should learn how to handle arguments. The first time he hit me it was in the face. Find out if anyone has done this to him. I say you tell them.


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I slapped my husband and he hit me back?

i slapped my boyfriend and he hit me back

I'm going through something similar myself and am looking for feedback. And don't say love because this is not love. He promised again and he did it again. Needless to say, we are no longer together. Has he always been a pretty bright guy, successful in school? The fact that she's asking for advice on a forum is a good sign. And they have a 19 month old son, so both of them probably have had very little sleep in nearly two years, and they're under stress because they have many new responsibilities to meet. If somewhere between all that you slapped him, I don't blame you.

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Suddenly after 5 years together, my boyfriend hit me when he disagreed. Am I wrong not to want to sacrifice what we have over this?

i slapped my boyfriend and he hit me back

He wanted me to go home because he was going to his house. I have a man who loves me who doesnt hit me. What you need to is apologize for hitting him in the face. I don't care if you disagree with this because I don't give a shit what someone who thinks they're above getting a slap back when they've hit someone not once but twice. You don't know whether you can trust him? I've personally know a good friend of mine who began in a similar situation such as yourself. The test of the guys character is whether he lets this become a pattern or makes a decision to be conscious of what he's capable of and to prevent it from happening again.

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My Boyfriend Hit Me: How to Leave an Abusive Relationship

i slapped my boyfriend and he hit me back

I thought I was happy but when he got back from California we started talking again, and I fell in love with him all over again. I think that ideally, that's how relationships are supposed to go; you're two different people. Even the car is under my name he has nothing but controls everything I have. LikeAna, You should never hit someone. It's true that you really don't know how some of us feel unless you've been through it.

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