However, there are also some of us who revel in the idea of being independent more. We are going to talk to who we want and hang out with who we want. We say exactly how we feel. We can change our own light bulb, carry our own groceries and drive ourselves, thank you very much. But be prepared for all the enthusiasm that she will bring to the table for the things she is passionate about.
No sugar-coating, no fabrications Image source: Google, copyright-free image under Creative Commons License Independent women have the strength of character to call a spade a spade, no matter the consequences. Even if she does, she will not appreciate you making the decision for her. You must give us space to become who we're going to be — and we'll do the same for you Often the most tension in relationships has to do with the ways someone became something other than what you assumed they'd remain. We're going to need to keep some things solely ours. She doesn't need someone to complete her; she wants someone to inspire her.
She will not be impressed with any of your antics either. You want this woman to love you a certain way, tell her exactly what it is you need. Your woman will love you dearly, but you will be a fragment of her happiness. A man who is chivalrous and respectful. If she thinks that her personal space is being violated, she will not hesitate to call you out on it.
We want you to have your own hobbies, take a weekend trip with the guys and do things for yourself once in a while. The key is to find the balance. You are unlikely to experience a dull moment when she is around, because she is full of adventure and excitement. So what does it take to sweep a girl like her off her feet? Yet, there seems to be a common misconception that women are entirely relationship-centered and most of what we do revolves around finding a mate. She will tend to perceive you as more of a challenge and call when she wants to show you affection again.
What's more, the friends she has known for a long time will be quite protective of her. This means you should feel self-confident about your job, financial situation and life before introducing her to it. If you plan to date a woman who is highly independent, follow some of the points mentioned above, and be prepared for a satisfying relationship. Her career is as important as yours Image source: Her career is one of the most important things in her life, and you have to accept the fact that her life and her profession are as important and demanding as yours, if not more. At the tender age of five, our sweet little boy died suddenly from a brain tumor.
Instead, an independent woman just thinks of herself as someone who is ambitious, hard-working, and self-sustaining. Featured image source: Google, copyright-free image under Creative Commons License. Yes you would get two when the both of you combine, not one. Independent partners want and need exactly that: a true, equal partner. Also, when she realizes that she is beginning to like you more than necessary, she will take a step backwards. Yet, I have noticed that some men are confused — and occasionally insulted or intimidated — by the whole idea.
Actually, we prefer it, on occasion, because it gives us the chance to catch up with our own friends or spend the night catching up on our independent interests. She is independent in every sense. Independent women have made the decision to share life with you. We value our relationships with the people who are important to us. Cougar Life is where modern, confident women connect with younger men for fun, exciting relationships. Until Next Time, Toni Image credits, from top: 1.
If you have decided to date an independent woman, you have to be ready to give her her alone time whenever she asks for it, and alone means alone. By over-explaining you are assuming she is less intelligent than you. If you want to spend time with her, ask her for it. An independent woman has the benefit of being exposed to a variety of experiences, a result of which she is tolerant, loving, and intelligent. Some felt the statement was true, but for others, the answer was no. .
Simply, we don't need your approval or, worse yet, feigned approval to feel confident in who we are and how we think. She is independent, because she wants to prioritize her needs without making anyone else accountable for her actions. If you do not want to remain in a long-lasting relationship with her, say so in the beginning. She has most things in her life handled, which means she is with you because she finds value in you. Know when to give your lover space and support her need to be alone. Being independent means a lot to her, and letting other people control her actions destabilizes her control over her situation.
And yes, she is a feminist. An independent woman understands the importance of allowing you the freedom to live a life that is not completely intertwined with hers. Perhaps this is why the term 'independent woman' is sometimes frowned upon. She works because she wants her own career, her own identity. People like to be by themselves and go over the day mentally, to follow up with themselves about how they did at that important meeting, and think about if they could do anything differently or better.