So get on with being honest but tread carefully. Give your lady the respect she deserves by making sure she has a clean seat. To do this, you have to be a gentleman and be courteous, kind, understanding, and generally admirable. Now her friend wants me to end it with my girlfriend and make us official. But she will get over you in time and find someone who wants only her. She got to join in later when I fucked each of the other 3, and she handled my dick quite a bit, so I set up a separate date later, which she also wanted, and it was even better one on one.
If you plan on trying to have sex, or even talking about having sex with your girl, then you should be prepared with some condoms in case the mood strikes her. If you're her first boyfriend, if she's sexually inexperienced, or if she's deeply religious or has other moral convictions that make her steadfast about not having sex, then you should back off and wait for her to trust you enough to even consider having sex with you. You don't have to do anything corny or out of your element to make her feel special. Make sure that you plan at least one or two dates every week and that you check in with her at least once a day if you're not together. You should make her feel special, like you want only her.
This doesn't mean that you should flash the condoms or make her feel uncomfortable, but it does mean that you should have some backup just in case things do go in a favorable direction. You need to make sure to remove any dirty laundry off your floor, clean your counters, and make your bed look and smell as clean and inviting as possible. If you want to make your girlfriend trust you, then you have to be loyal to her. She won't want to get it on if your bed is covered in candy wrappers and dirty underwear. This will only show that you care. We've been having an affair for six months now, but cannot break up our friendship group It has carried on for the past six months. Instead, take it slow, grazing your lips as you touch her hair or stroke her face.
If you don't stick to your word, she won't be able to trust you. Remember that you're not with your bros, but with your special lady. I was dating this girl in college and she pledged a sorority. This may sound silly, but if you want your girlfriend to really feel special, then you shouldn't invite her to hang out at your place if it looks like the set for World War Z. I always thought me and my girlfriend would be together for ever.
Accept that some girls will never have sex until they're married and that there's nothing you can do to change their mind. Instead, you should kiss your girlfriend for a few seconds, then hold back, stroke her, and talk to her. So, prove her wrong by being an upstanding and dependable guy. This will turn your girlfriend off and will make her much less likely to sleep with you. Some guys can be ready to have sex with a girl in the time it takes to down a beer, while some girls can take months, or even longer, to decide that they're ready to make love. It takes a bit longer for things to reach a natural progression.
Then, go back to your clean apartment, which should be stocked with red wine, grapes, chocolate, and some light jazz on the radio. If you really want to make your girlfriend want you, then you shouldn't act like a sexual beast, moving rapidly from kissing to touching, to ripping off your clothes and practically levitating into the bedroom. After you do this, sex comes naturally. Good timing and taking matters easy will ultimately make her mellow down no matter how long the process may take. If you say you're going to take her to the beach over the weekend, do it. Take her out on romantic dates.
Ask her what she thinks about the current political situation in your state, or about the look of your new outfit. If you want to build the sexual tension, you have to build the romance first. If your girlfriend says she's not ready to have sex with you, then you shouldn't pressure her. Begin by lightly caressing her arms, the back of her head and hair, and then, as things progress, stroke her breasts under her shirt or wait for her to touch you. Show her that everything she says is important to you. Repeat this move a few times and wait for her to go wild. And some girls -- sorry, gentlemen -- are really adamant about holding out for the one, and don't even want to have sex before marriage.
If you're not attentive to your lady's everyday needs, then how will you be attentive in the bedroom? Show an interest in all of her; not just her body. Do not act like you are obsessed with sex. Make sure she's ready for more before you proceed. Your girl's biggest fear may be that you don't care at all about her mind because you're too busy obsessing over her body. If you act completely oblivious when she's obviously upset about something, then she'll think you're not really paying attention to her. Don't overwhelm her and grope her the second you lock lips.