A month went by and I hadn't received any money, so I sent him an email asking. While most of us feel like we should honor our obligations—especially to friends and family—narcissists are lacking that integrity. Unless you have a provable agreement, which usually means a written one, you have no right to get back past living expenses. I am so frustrated, I loaned money to an ex boyfriend and it was money I got from a settlement from being in a motorcycle accident and I am still having a hard time finding work, it was money that was supposed to help me get back on my feet, he kept borrowing and borrowing now its almost all gone, I trusted him, and now he moved to Utah, I have talked to him and he still continues to say he will pay me back. A more important question is whether you will be successful. He always wanted cash for the rent because he didn't have a bank account. How can I get my money back due to no services rendered? However, I'm not certain as to the outcome.
First, figure out how much he still owes you. Do you really think the courts care? I pride myself in apologizing when I am wrong or have wronged others either intentionally or unintentionally, 'I want my money back': The reality star reflected on her messy relationship with Brooks and said she was fooled by his sweet-talking ways 'Through the first five years of dating Vicki, I was coined as a con man, low life, gold digger, dead beat, etc. Vicki said she saw the similarities '100%'. I think u need to start accepting the fact that its really over. On week three she said the same thing. My exboyfriend an I split up a couple of years ago but we are still good friends and are still very close. I am so frustrated, I loaned money to an ex boyfriend and it was money I got from a settlement from being in a motorcycle accident and I am still having a hard time finding work, it was money that was supposed to help me get back on my feet, he kept borrowing and borrowing now its almost all gone, I trusted him, and now he moved to Utah, I have talked to him and he still continues to say he will pay me back.
Your money difficulties are solvable. Very hard to do with someone who has no bank account, no assetts of value and changes jobs frequently. She dated Brooks for five years until their split in July 2015 amid claims he'd lied about a cancer diagnosis. More Anyone can sue anyone else for anything. And since the child is now 18 would she get it? They will go to great lengths to avoid paying you! In the case of one woman, she would probably encourage you to do so after her boyfriend of more than a year decided to take his sweet time to pay her back on a hefty loan.
More Depending on all the circumstances you may be able to sue him for the money he borrowed. You do have legal means to recover the money even without a written agreement or promissory not. If it was me I would forget about him and the money and move on with my life. The Real Housewives of Orange County star made the claims on Sunday night's Bravo reunion show as she revealed she plans to take Brooks, 50, to court. Am I legally entitled to any housing compensation or money for the loan, even though there was no written contract for either one? The continuing contact with your ex who seems to lap it up like a hungry Poodle at dinner is revealing that both your time and emotions are still wrapped up in trying to complete the past. For example, if you are getting divorced and the narcissist is ordered to pay for insurance for your kids, or your mortgage payment, they might let it slide. I have a friend whose narcissist husband purposely let their house get foreclosed while he stashed money in hidden bank accounts and claimed he was broke.
Get it organized, because you'll need it. Never mind that his children were living in the house…. Sorry but there is very little you can do. The need for such an approach is obvious: just think about how horrible life would be except for lawyers if every transaction you engaged in had to be in writing in order to preserve your legal rights. The biggest problem that I have to passed near her flat very day when I go to my work , no other route! So its impossible you started your own. Do you have signed promissory notes, checks or receipts? That has nothing to do with age. She said if I buy her a motocycle she would have sex with me twice a week.
Bottomline is never borrow or lend money; I learnt the hard way and you have to be really strict about this. But, the few times that I let him borrow money I absolutely never had a problem getting the money back. You can then go after him for the money. It was a verbal agreement and nothing in writing. There is still a lot of money she owes me however she has now blocked me on facebook and possibly blocked me from calling or texting her. His adultery was her fault! A judge might rule in your favor.
I don't know what to do, if you find out what your going to do, please let me know. Black women seek information on a wide variety of topics including African-American hair care, health issues, relationship advice and career trends - and MadameNoire provides all of that. It's okay to link to other resources for more details, but avoid giving answers that contain little more than a link. Take my ex for example…he owed 9 years of back child support to his mistress whom he had a affair with while married to his 1st wife. Avoid jargon and technical terms when possible.
If he does not repay you then there is small claims court. I am also almost 40 and while I do not want to play games on my boyfriend it is still extremely important to let them chase. I paid her bills for free. I never show her that. You should not rely on this response in taking or forgoing action in your circumstances without discussing this matter with an attorney.